All posts by Kelly Dodds

Coffee Addict, IT Nerd, Travel Lover, Chocoholic, Quirky. Scentsy- www.kellydodds.com

Wandering Again- Safetly?

June has brought forth the venturing out into the world.

May however brought a lot of internal issues, stress, anxiety- and a need to stay away from non-work related media. I find myself sitting here on my last day off for the week, after traveling to Savannah, Georgia typing – wishing I were relaxed. Alas, there’s still plenty of turmoil in the world. COVID isn’t done. Protests, Riots, Looting has me fearing COVID increases. As Columbus reopens, Georgia is not there yet- even though via media it appeared Ohio to be the leader in the COVID forefront, we are reopening far sooner than some other lower case count areas. Why? It was an eye-opening week.

Some restaurants and retail are open but not nearly like Columbus. We had fully planned a week of take out, sitting by the private pool, and outside walks/shopping. Malls in Georgia aren’t opening until 11/12pm and are closing at 6pm. Outside Market areas still have closed retailers. The squares in Savannah were the emptiest I’ve ever seen. We go back two times a year typically. The beach and the outlet mall were the two busiest places we went. For June – Tybee was not busy. I wanted this trip to heal my soul… but it hurt my heart. These small business owners need the tourists. Without them- they cut back open hours, staff, some even closed. We couldn’t eat at our favorite spot as they went to Friday-Monday only and we didn’t expect that. It did mean we tried a few new locations for food. I’ll do a different food specific blog for that.

For someone that uses travel as a way to battle depressive states- this left me wanting to do more travel. It made me want to educate myself more on COVID, Black Lives Matter movements, Pride. So that’s what I’ll do while working on planning the next travel.

The projects we start….. during Quarantine

Let’s face it- we’re all to that stage of quarantine where we’ve done SOMETHING project-like. If you’re reading this I can almost guarantee you’ve done one of the following:

  • Organized
  • Purged
  • Replaced something
  • Renovated something
  • Sold something
  • Did lawn care
  • Planted a garden
  • Deep Cleaned
  • Painted
  • Crafted
  • Baked
  • Learned a new recipe
  • Finished a TV series or Subscribed to a streaming service

I’ll stop there because I’m sure I covered everything. I ripped up carpet from a flood the first weekend in quarantine. This caused me to have to organize and purge. It caused me to “attempt” to replace something- more about that later on. I started a Pinterest board to renovate my half bath. I always sell something so I’m not a statistic there. We’re not to the lawn/planting phase yet. We’ve cleaned. I’ve been tempted to buy paint- luckily I can’t decide on a color. I’ve been crafty with Scentsy- coming up with themed gift and mystery bags. I baked Banana Bread from scratch tonight. Kylie and I are making Ropa Vieja this week. I finished Elite on Netflix. Oh and what isn’t on this list- I made TikTok coffee. I said it. 


So that’s fun. I’m a statistic lol. Ripping up carpet was a three weekend project so I can say I’ve managed to keep myself incredibly busy. The one thing I can say is that I absolutely hate when it’s rainy or cold as I can’t go outside. Oh and when I have to go to a store and the majority of people aren’t in masks and don’t respect the social distancing guidelines. I do know not every believes. I know not everyone cares- if they get it they get it. I know most likely everyone will get it or has had it. I just would prefer to not have it until there is a vaccine since I have asthma and an autoimmune disease. You’re wearing a mask helps me- not you. My wearing a mask helps you not me. Coming right in front of my face to grab cheese doesn’t help either of us. They want you to reduce the stress on hospitals. I rightfully should have stayed home knowing I’m high risk- but somethings you cannot get the items on your list delivered. Time to switch topics. I’m not trying to be a Karen.

I’m making some new friends. I’ve adopted 4 seniors to send some fun things to from my old school district- this is a fun, creative project that may be happening in your local area. A friend added me via Facebook Group so check for those if you use that platform. I love giving back and since my senior year was 9/11- I feel for these poor kids. I picked two girls and two boys but I have an extra surprise up my sleeve for another. One loves smells and NYC, One loves old books and vintage items, One loves OSU, and One loves everything but the color yellow lol.

I decided I needed to not wait for Ikea to open back up to get a Cube Organizer. I made a grave mistake here. This error in judgement caused me a great deal of frustration tonight. I paid 9ish dollars less for something held together by pegs and it broke as soon as I flipped it up right. The issue is the delivery fee for Ikea for the Kallax System was 49.99. Well this one will go back to Target. I will buy Kallax once Ikea reopens in Polaris and be a patient little Kelly. Lesson learned.

This cute little puppy of ours- she kept trying to come down to the basement to see what I was doing. I’ve nicknamed her Baby Quarantine after one of those your name and birthday charts gave her Baby Quarantine. It suits her. She was supposed to be social, not needed, able to be kenneled. Yeah- thanks COVID. She’s spoiled, anxious when we leave, and needs to touch someone to go to sleep. We are in trouble when we have to go back to work.

That’s basically what’s up in the Wanderless World of Kelly. I miss travel. I’d love to Quarantine at a beach. If I could find someplace that I could drive too, that is warmish and has an open beach I could walk- it’d be worth it for a week. I just need a change of scenery. Maybe If it gets warm next weekend I can drive somewhere here with water. It’s been chilly however and rainy. I cannot believe the next time I post it will be May. We’ve still not heard about the first stage of reopening Ohio and we’ve been told movement will happen May 1. I suppose we’ll have to find out within the next 4ish days.

❤ Stay Safe all.

Kelly

Learning to Relax- How Quarantine is teaching me self care.

We all have different ideas of what self care is. Some of us spend so much time worrying about others that we don’t even have a vision of what self care looks like for ourselves. I’d hear my friends talk about getting their nails done, going to a masseuse, taking a yoga or attending a reiki healing session and thinking I just don’t have time to do those things. I’d attempt to go to a movie but knew that something would happen that required my attention during the 2-3 hour window of time that I just couldn’t miss that I never turned my phone off- merely silenced with the vibrate on. Was anything truly that serious- no. I didn’t figure that out until this Quarantine however.

We’ve seen all the posts of people saying that what God wants is for everyone to slow down. I’m not one to go into religion so that’s the only point of reference there- no need to leave the blog. I do think the message of slowing down was one a true type A personality needed to digest. Things like – being a hero means sitting on your ass and watching Netflix- do it for ‘merica. Lord I just typed that. Bless my own heart. Funny- I’ve barely Netflix’d during this. So here’s how I learned what self care is to me personally. It may look different than yours- and that’s okay, since I like that we’re all different and not the same. I may even try one of your conventional self care methods eventually. For now these are mine to share, so enjoy.

TikTok

Yes- I’m in my 30’s. No- This app was not aimed at my generation. Did that stop me from joining- *shakes head no*.  My handle is @kellyndodds (original I know lol) Have I posted anything – not really. Will I- eh, I have some ideas. I don’t want to be a direct sales chick on TikTok so Scentsy won’t be a focus if I do. I have a cool idea for a quick take that Karen lol but I’ve got to get up the nerve to film it and post it. I’ve gotten as far as filming it….. lol. What I like to do is send them to my friends and watch them before bed. #realoldgirlshit lol

Zoom

I love people. I need people and connection and no I don’t want it from people who work at my day job but from my friends that I miss seeing. I love Zoom so much that I pay for the premium version and randomly post a link on my socials like hey come talk to me please. No but seriously- I can pretend like I’m anywhere with the virtual backgrounds. I found out two of my friends MOVED while on a zoom this week! Like say less. Plus pants are OPTIONAL. I get to see my people, hear their voices and see their faces. We stan Zoom.

Music and Podcasts are getting me through the work from home day. There are days when 3 of us are in this house through the week and this is why the other 2 aren’t dead. My newest obsessions- 2000s throwbacks playlist and Rachel Hollis- RISE podcast. Some amazing gems on both counts. We love some old Drake and Motivation in the mornings.

 

Scentsy Soak Baths

Meet my new(er) BFF. Pink Himalayan Sea Salt & Epsom Salt soothe and relax. I love a bath. You can’t do too much else while submerged in water. That apple watch isn’t calculating movements since it’s not waterproof honey. I mean mine isn’t waterproof – if yours is- snaps to you. Some of my best ideas come from bath time. I love that I don’t have to clean color or glitter up out of the tub after I use it like I do most bath products too. This one leaves me feeling moisturized as well. I may have 6 bags with 6 more on the way…….. What else do I have to spend money on right now but food?

 

The Fitness Marshall has been basically the only activity I’ve done since Quarantine. Ohio is cold and rainy currently. Going outside is a rarity – though it has happened a few times and for that I’m #blessed. I still have those pesky Apple Watch Rings to close and 30 minutes of Caleb goes by far faster than 30 minutes on a stationary bike hunty. I may mess around and join the Booty Army before this is done. I’ve been randomly using his quick videos since starting Weight Watchers in 2018. Scentsy then brought him to our Family Reunion last year in Austin, TX as a fitness event and I loved every minute of it. PS that is the SOFTEST tshirt I’ve ever had still to this day. ❤ Oh and he has a coffee seating dining table ordeal that I may copy.

And lastly,

Makeup

This is a constant. I’ve slowed down on it since I can’t exactly strut into an Ulta at any moment of course but I may have an 80$ order heading my way. 2 mascaras, 4 face masks, a hair mask, acne stickers, foot mask and pumice stone, magnetic lashes, makeup remover sponge, and shower steamer bar. What an array of products to try that I’ve never used before. I love to help people. Some do not realize how many of us utilize reviews before we spend money on a product. I’m not always one of those people but if I am leery on a product or it’s got a decent price tag I AM that person. I’ve been reviewing products I get via subscription boxes or that I purchase and you can too. I highly recommend following me and getting started too here- Influenster .

And for now- this is it. This is how I have opened up to Self Care while the state of Ohio is closed for business. When it re-opens going to the gym and seeing my friends will be on this list, as well as traveling. It’s not a bad list though once you look at it. What’s on your list? Let me know in the comments below!

<3, Kelly

2020 – A Wanderers Nightmare

I’m not even sure how to begin this entry. My life was so different in January. I believe my last entry here was February. Things in Ohio started to change in the mid of March so I suppose we will start there. I’ll preface this by saying the last time I’ve been in close proximity to friends was March 14th. I’ve been in Quarantine for exactly 30 days today. Thank GOD my hair was done at the beginning of March. I got lucky with that one ya’ll. I know it’s not a joking matter- but that’s how I cope now- I mean I can’t exactly run away now can I?

It’s no secret- I love to travel. And it’s no secret that right now – I can’t do that. Thanks to COVID-19 we’ve all been ordered to Stay at Home (some other states/countries call it Shelter in place). If you do not know what COVID-19 is I’ll let the CDC provide you accurate information: Corona Virus

Ohio’s Governor Mike Dewine has been pretty on top of the game so to speak with shutting things down early to stop widespread. It does mean a lot of folks are without jobs, and a lot of places are closed. We’re lucky enough to still be able to go to essential locations like grocery stores, pharmacies, gas stations- but all restaurants are take out only or delivery. No gatherings of over 10 people. Our Convention Center where our spring training for Scentsy should have been held- was turned into a make shift overflow hospital in case we need it. Long story short- we’re not advised to travel. If you’re in Ohio too here’s where our accurate info is stored: Corona Virus – Ohio

I’m grateful that this didn’t affect my Hawaii trip in January. However I’ve had to cancel travel in May as our quarantine is through May 30th and our trip to Orlando was scheduled for May 2nd. It cancelled the Scentsy incentive cruise. It could cause me to have to cancel our road trip in June to Niagara Falls and Toronto if the boarders to Canada are still closed as well. It could even cancel our Scentsy Family Reunion which is still scheduled to be held in Salt Lake City, Utah in July. I’ve never not traveled. We typically go away at least once a month even if it’s just a weekend in Chicago or Washington DC. Oh both of those were on the to do list this year and may be crossed off as well. I am holding hope that my friends from my Scentsy Boot Camp still get to do our meet up in October!

 

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Hanauma Bay, Honolulu, Hawaii (I own the rights to this image, as I took it)

 

This blog is being re-constructed into how a Wanderer copes with being locked down. There’s been ups and downs already. Things like increased anxiety, depression states, the battle of health vs binge eating, and almost losing my shit because I can’t leave. Those were the downs obviously. There’s been lessons learned, battles overcome, and leaves turned as well.

So welcome- to a new way of thinking, a new way of life (some temporary, some permanent), and a journey of who I become during Covid -19 Quarantine.

❤ , Kelly

A Whole New Face – Hi Winter, How are you?

I geek out over a few things. Makeup just happens to be one of them. I test a lot of products for companies. I get free stuff, I try it, I talk about it – the good, bad, sometimes ugly. Sometimes I take photos. Sometimes I don’t. SOMETIMES I actually buy stuff lol. I’m not on a PR list. Soooooooooooo in this case- well let me just jump into it.

A recommendation, a light complexion, and a need.

My typical foundation is Tarte- Amazonian Clay Full Coverage Foundation SPF 15 and it retails for almost 40$. For a bigger picture the color I own is Medium Beige (35N). I went to put it on the other day and well… Winter in Ohio has dragged my skin tone down a notch. We’re not trying to pull a James Charles over here so something had to give. My sisters foundation is far too light. I also did not want to pay 39$ for a shade I’ll use through maybe March at best (it’s February).

I scoured outlets to see what people were giving good reviews for that also was long wearing. I’ve tried Maybelline Fit Me and I do like it however after long wear it appears caked on and/or slides off with certain primers. I saw a video of a girl wearing Loreal Infallible Fresh Wear 24 hr foundation – and the girl put that camera RIGHT on her face and said LOOK AT THIS. That was it. I was sold. I was going to purchase shade 455 online and then decided to just go down to my Ulta (I’m a regular so it’s like hanging out with your friends) and grab it. Turns out I’m pretty good at shade matching by sight, as I left with 455 Natural Buff. I waited until the next day to try it.

Okay so I moisturized, then used Cover FX Blurring Primer – which was a product I was sent free and that I am testing currently. It’s not my typically primer. It is tinted slightly which my normal is clear. The show goes on. It’s a pump style foundation and I noticed it took quite a few attempts for product to come out. Once it did it was very runny. If you have used the Tarte foundation you know it’s thicker. I used a brush since it was on the runny side. It applied very well and it wore very well. No transferring! No cakey face syndrome. For 14.99 instead of 39$ this foundation was a win in my books. It did take a little more product, but at over half price you can afford to use a little more right?

I’ve finally got my skin in a position where I can start wearing less full coverage options so I may even go buy my summer shade……. but lets not go crazy yet!

So if you’re a makeup lover, and you like to try new options- this one is a good time in my books.

**picture coming soon**

 

Well 2020 is here – and I’m late (duh)

Well didn’t know it did that…..

Welcome to 2020. I’m a month late (and some days). I feel like I blinked and 2019 vanished. Trying to even remember everything accomplished in 2019 hurts my brain. It made me realize I need to document 2020 or I’m going to have an even harder time remember it. So we’re back.

2020, started off with me pushing incredibly hard to earn a trip that I’d end up NOT earning. BUT the lessons learned trying to do so are invaluable. I made choices that I wouldn’t change as they will help my business growth- over what would have helped me earn a cruise out of New York to Bermuda. I still gave it my all and I can 100% say that with no regrets. It helps that I also traveled to Honolulu, Hawaii with Kylie (my sister) in January as part of our Scentsy Leadership Retreat.

We stayed at Hilton Waikiki Village – and honestly you could have never left the resort and enjoyed everything it had to offer and relaxed- but we had way too much to do.

Early Morning Acai bowls and a walk on the beach before my business meeting. I’d never had an Acai bowl before. It was creamy and cold, full of fresh fruit and the pineapples on the island are exactly as you dream.  The Dole Plantation (READ AS DOLE WHIP) and a Japanese Steakhouse marked our 1st non-travel day adventure after my business meeting.  My foodie friend Holly joined us as we walked through a zen like garden and rode a train through the whole plantation learning of its history. Cherry on top – a Dole Whip that trumped Disney’s for sure. We had the most interesting Uber driver on our way back to the village. He told us so many amazing facts about the scenery (since the drive was over an hour long he had a lot of time to kill lol).

We were starving- but food with Kylie can prove….. interesting. I was incredibly proud of her (until I found out she wasn’t 100% sure what she had gotten into) for agreeing to the Japanese steakhouse. This is very worthy of it’s own paragraph. We ended up at a table with two other groups. In each group there was a food allergy. Group 1: Onions. Group 2 & 3: Shellfish. This lead to a backwards format for the chef. Still fun, just meant I ended up eating before the rest of my party as my items had to be cooked prior to shellfish. We strolled the village shops, and then went to bed.

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Day 2- We went to breakfast at Cinnamons – which everyone raved about. I was kind of disappointed but my food was not horrible. It just wasn’t worth raving about. We also got lost. What should have taken 9 minutes took 30 because Kylie and I can’t be trusted with maps. We went to the Mall, and some other shops, and eventually bought a Coastal Tour Trolley ride. It may have been the highlight of my trip (well one of them). We used Waikiki Trolley. If you purchased a tour line (ours was blue, will link below) you got pink line free for 24 hours. Waikiki Trolley Blue Line . Hanauma Bay and the Halona Blow Hole were by far the best stops. I even got video of the blow holes! Hanauma Bay is SO clear and Blue. You could see the coral from the look out points. I was so grateful for nature on this trip. We also had to be picked up from a ritzy duty free designer mall so that was fun to walk around. We had lunch at a rooftop TexMex place and feed rice to the birds. They get so close! Kylie loves birds so she had a lot of fun. We had dinner with Holly at a diner that my Mimi would have loved. Good old Burger and Tots stop.

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Day 3 – Pearl Harbor Day. 5am wakeup. LOL But it was worth it. We had a great tour guide- Cousin K. She’s a senior driver so she knows her stuff and she spits knowledge at you so the stopping and picking up/dropping off others isn’t such a dreadful process. I can’t recall which company we booked through as we used the location at Hilton Waikiki Village to book. We did the USS Arizona and I wished my dad could have been there. This would have been right up his alley. The Harbor is so shallow that the boat still there, and very visible. It’s also still leaking oil. That’s mind-blowing. 1941 and still leaking in 2020. It was sobering- the stories of survivors of the boat once passing away asking to be dropped into the ship with their lost friends. There’s only a few survivors left and there is a myth that the people of Hawaii believe- that the oil will stop leaking at the death of the last survivor. Wouldn’t that just be ominous? We met Tim & Jim from Chicago area on that day and we wish we would have hung out with them more. Maybe one day our paths will cross again. I went to the pool with Holly and ended up near our CEO’s. Had fun conversation and I got in the ICE cold pool for 3 minutes and yea nope. Couldn’t hang. It started raining. Kylie and I later went out to some other shops and a flea market. We ate at Yard House which we LOVE. We do not have one in Columbus though.  One word to end your night – Leonard’s Portuguese donuts. YUM.

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Last Day – Our plane takes off at 4:30pm on our last day and flies through the night. We decided to walk the beach and get breakfast in the Village. Checkout is at 11am and they hold our luggage- nice perk. Our shuttle is scheduled for 1:30pm. We just kind of took everything in for a last time and then headed on our journey home. We found turtles we’d missed the whole time! I’m so grateful that I’m able to take trips like this as a leader. It certainly – as previously stated- made the sting of not earning Bermuda hurt less. I did earn Salt Lake City, Utah so look for that adventure in July.

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2019 Book list

  1. The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups by Daniel Coyle
  2. Start with Why by Simon Sinek
  3. You are a badass at making money by Jen Sincero
  4. How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes
  5. Get your Sh*t Together: How to stop worrying about what you should do so you can finishe what you need to do and start doing what you want to do by Sarah Knight
  6. F*uck Feelings: One Shrink’s Practical Advice for Managing All Life’s Impossible Problems by Sarah Bennett
  7. Beach Money by Jordan Adler
  8. The 4-hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss
  9. You are a badass every day by Jen Sincero
  10. Dare to Lead: Brave Work, Tough Conversations, Whole Hearts by Brene Brown
  11. High Performance Habits by Brennen Buchard
  12. The 15 invaluable laws of growth by John C Maxwell

What are you reading in 2019?

The day I remembered I had a blog

Whoops. Long time no see eh?

How have I been? Well I changed jobs. Best decision of my life. Yes I’m still with Scentsy. I left Wendy’s. It was soul sucking. I’m in a way better headspace now.

I’m still on Weight Watchers, aka WW now. Still pushing towards my goals. This was my first holiday season on the plan and I will say- HOLIDAYS ARE HARD! There’s been a few “Treat Yo’self” moments. I know it will balance out after the holidays- only 1 left to go- New Years! We got this!

I’ve been sick since December 15th. That’s no fun (It’s December 27th btw). Day by day getting better though- and that’s what matters most.

Christmas at our house was great. Christmas Eve at my grandparents was great. Christmas day at my grandparents- dramatics is all I will say. We leave when it starts. It’s not worth the energy. My poor grandparents though. All they want is their house full of people and spirit for the big holidays. I’ll pray for them. That’s all I can do. We’ll just do Christmas Eve like always with them alone. Again, I feel bad for my grandparents- but honestly things change. People change. The dynamic is just- bad, and has been for years. There’s reasoning for that. Nothing I’d go into here.

The rest of Christmas at home was amazing. I got so much done. Started to try on all my old clothes for purging since the weight loss. Started a box of makeup/skin care I doubt I’ll get to- people are asking me to sell it. So maybe I’ll do that and put that money towards my trip to Indiana in February or Austin in July. I’d rather travel anyways!

❤ Til next time.

The day I got annoyed with the fashion industry

As Always you can find me on social media mostly @KellyNDodds or Facebook: kelly.dodds.33 ❤

Funny thing about the “fashion” industry- it seems there is no set standard in sizing any longer. I remember as an early teenager I could go into a store, by the same number jean and no matter what brand it would fit because they were all made in the same measurements. Once I got to my later teen years spandex started being incorporated into denim far more frequently and all of a sudden sizing got crazy different. When I got to plus sizes it was super impossible. Every single pair of pants I put on is different. You HAVE no choice but to try on clothes.

At my largest, I wore a size 22. It’s hard to even type that. I can’t believe it ever happened. I lived in stretchy jeggings and leggings. They were easy, plus seeing TC or XXL on pants was easier that number. Many jeans in that size were super big in the legs. They however fit in the waist. They looked hideous on. Quickly in my journey I lost some weight which knocked me down to a 20. New Size, Same problem- most fit in the waist, some didn’t and the legs all too baggy. I found myself living in high waist/skinny leg denim because it was easier to get to fit without trying on. I lost even more weight and had the same problem in size 18. Some fit, some just were too tight still in the waist. That’s when someone introduced me to junior plus.

I wish I could give you more insight – I’m 5’5”, and have no clue what ‘shape’ I am bodywise. I’m super bad at looking at that chart and making what I see into a fruit. I also do not own a tape measure so I have no clue inches of anything – best blogger award here folks! I feel like I have no torso because of my chest and I have more legs than torso however I’m still short.

The world of Junior plus is fascinating. I learned about different fits- boyfriend, mom, high rise skinny, mid-rise skinny, and in this realm low rise doesn’t exist currently. I also found it easier to find than I thought. Some shopping locations I have found:

  1. Forever 21
  2. Rue 21
  3. Torrid
  4. Maurices
  5. Target
  6. Charlotte Russe
  7. Simply Be
  8. Dia & Co
  9. Cato
  10. H&M

Other things I noticed about Junior Plus:

  • Less expensive (on average, Torrid/Maurices outliers)
  • Trendier (in comparison to Catherines/Avenue/Lane Bryant)
  • Not as focused on Quality (on average, Torrid/Maurices outliers)

As of this week I am a size 16. I’m sure I’ll continue to have the same issues with denim for the rest of my weight loss journey.

What they do not tell you about a weight loss journey or a “healthy you” journey I should say is that sometimes all the emotions come out. In my case I punish AND also would reward myself with unhealthy foods. Bad day- eat the bad stuff it’ll make it better. Good day- eat the cupcake you deserve it. When it should have been bad day- do some self care. Good day- hang out with your friends.

Moral? We all get frustrated with these numbers. You aren’t alone. /RANT.