All posts by Kelly Dodds

Coffee Addict, IT Nerd, Travel Lover, Chocoholic, Quirky. Scentsy- www.kellydodds.com

Northwest kinda feeling – Part 1

Welcome to the blog I’ve been ever promising. Seattle was an experience of 1st time things. It was my first long distance trip alone. It was my first flight with Frontier Airlines. It was suppose to be my first business class flight – more on that later. My first trip to the North West region of the United States.My first time using Air B&B. You  get it right? Lots of firsts. Let’s start with this randomness and how I came back an even mellower human being.

Painting the scene.

It’s mid July, humid, hazy, hot. We’re in  Nashville, TN and it’s  around 11:30 pm. We’re at Steak ‘N Shake with some of my FAVORITE Scentsy people. One being Heather M. Heather lives about an hour away from Seattle, where I have a high school friend named Stacey. Heather and I talked about her baby shower (oh- she’s pregnant and due 9/11 in this part of the story). I make a quick snap of a decision (after seeing how much money I had left over from this trip) that I would be going to this baby shower.

Preface*** I live outside of Columbus, Ohio.*** 

I booked a flight on an airline I’d never heard before through Priceline.com. I had no idea the ride I was in for. I scoured Air B&B until I found a room with hosts that I knew would have stories to tell. The wife an author/painter from Amsterdam and the husband a singer/stage production guy from Texas. The room was way cheaper than a hotel (we’re talking the whole stay was the cost of 1 night in a hotel!) so I wrote a message and they accepted my reservation. A jump into my generations culture- without shock. This was it. My flight booked. My room paid for. Research on car2go, Lyft, Uber, and Zipcar done. Heather was going to pick me up from the airport, I’d have a day with Stacey, then the Baby Shower, and then a flight home. Crafted and planned carefully with trips to Pike’s Place, The Space Needle, and fun food joints. A few days before my trip my phone pinged. An email from Frontier Airlines shown brightly. I had to pick a seat, and I had to let them know (and pay for) my baggage and said seat. Well if I have to pay for a seat I suppose I’ll pick business class… first 3 rows. Oh I didn’t know at the time… and what I would have killed for to have the knowledge I have now. These expenses caused this flight to be MORE expensive than other airlines. I justified the cost because of the business class seats- or so I thought.

Airport Time, Excellent!

I live about 30 minutes from John Glen International Airport, previously known as Port Columbus. I opt for early morning flights so I can clear TSA with plenty of time for coffee, breakfast, and a restroom trip. I love my routine so I stuck to it. 2 hours early- through the line quickly, and off I went in search of a Starbucks. I ordered my double shot on Ice which they had no clue how to ring up. After holding up the line, I finally got the correct drink. Everyone was super nice about it- I was just a little self conscious about it taking so long. It’s an airport and I know people are in a hurry. No one was mean to me though! Win! I grabbed a quick sandwich and found a seat with charger as one does- except none of the seat chargers worked. I remembered to pack and charge my extended battery pack though so another win! Ping- my Facebook Messenger goes off. It’s 5:45 am and not a soul I know is up at that time. It’s Heather. Why is she awake? Because she’s in labor so she cannot pick me up from the airport. Okay 1) Squeals of Delight because this baby knew I was coming and decided today is the day! 2) Worry because this baby is 3 weeks early and there could be issues. I quickly convinced her that I would be fine getting myself to my Air B&B, and not worry about me.

I had express boarding so I was on the plane quickly- however business class was no more than stretch seating. 3 extra inches of leg space. Let me paint another picture- I’m not towering tall. In fact I’m 5’5″. I didn’t need extra leg space. My personal items ended up having to be stowed 3 rows back which made me nervous the whole time. The icing on this Frontier Cake was when they offered the extra seats I was in to passengers for 15$ LESS than what I paid for it- when their site said it would be MORE expensive on the flight to upgrade. We landed in Denver and I had never been happier. We were released from the plane so it could gas up and be cleaned but we’d come back to it for our Seattle leg. Before I knew it I was collecting my personal items and requesting a Lyft.

Lyft vs. Uber

Columbus doesn’t have much of a Lyft following, but we have Uber. Fun Fact- I’ve never used Uber in my state. Only others. Which makes me familiar with it’s process. There were signs all over SeaTac Airport with Lyft codes so I decided to try it. A lesson I learned in the SeaTac airport- Lyft drivers are urged to purchase economical cars in Seattle. They get a bonus buying discount. Their car of choice: Prius. Their colors of choice: Grey, Black, and Midnight Blue. I’ll let you figure out how hard it was to find the actual Lyft I was suppose to be in. I learned this lesson chatting with an Uber driver with a Charger in red. I regretted my decision to Lyft because she was so fun! I got in my Lyft- asked about the area, thanked my driver and starred at the house I would be staying in. The notification came up with the 22$ car ride bill (after my 5$ discount). I pulled up Uber and the ride would have been 16$ with no discount. You got me Lyft! Props on that one- your marketing tactics at the airport worked well. I later Uber’d back to the airport to rent a car- turns out it was cheaper!

Air B & B not Air Conditioning….

The panoramic view of my Air B&B house was a lot to take in. There were compact discs on strings hanging in a tree. There were flowers and herbs everywhere. I approached the small stoop lined with shoes, rang the door bell and gazed fearfully at an orb spider in the middle of it’s web off to the left. I heard the clicking of the lock and found the Texan looking at me. I was welcomed, asked  to take my shoes off and it hit me. The day I arrived in Seattle the pilot announced it was unusually warm for the location and month. Unusually meant 25 degrees warmer than usual. It was 95. I must have removed my filter requiring AC when searching Air B&B, because my room only had a small personal fan. The room was butter yellow with paintings done by the owner. The bed was decorated with floral coverings. The pillows were memory foam. One of my favorite memories is of the sleep I got in that bed. I grew up in a house with window AC units in certain rooms only. There are a few combinations of tricks that help me sleep in the heat. 1st a cold shower- do not fully dry off. Putting on your pajamas while damp then putting a fan close to you will keep you cooler. I also got a glass of ice and put it in front of the fan. The ice melts and the fan throws teeny tiny water droplets at you until the ice gets too low in the glass. I also opened the window because it cooled down a little at night. It worked swimmingly. It’s a mistake I will never make again though!

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Friday Night Skylights

I studied materials my hosts had in my room. It was a surplus of arts, travel, culture, and food magazines, cards, and paper menus. I found a punch card to a local burger joint and asked if it was any good. As I was walking out the door I ran into my other host who asked if they could join me. We all wanted out of the heated house. To our surprise the burger joint did not have AC either. Seattle has some pretty strict recycling rules that took me a day to get use to. Compost piles and Food Scraps, Paper, Plastic, Glass, it was all required. We have to pay for this in Ohio, it’s treated like something special you get to have- in Seattle it’s something you have to do and if you do it incorrectly you can be fined! It’s fascinating.

We decided to eat outside, I waited for my  milkshake, cheeseburger combo knowing the milkshake would make the heat so much better. Heather had warned me of the food prices but this ended up being my most expensive meal of the trip. As we finished up my hosts decided to take me on a driving tour of the city. We stopped so I could get some amazing pictures of the skyline and gardens. This city is gorgeous and surrounded by Glacier Lakes, the sound, and has amazing sunsets. My hosts were very impressed with my ability to bounce back from having a large chunk of my plans destroyed. I can honestly say I too was impressed with myself. We went back to the house and I was given Trader Joe chocolate bites and a glass bottle of water for my room. The little details were not missed and were appreciated.

Here are some pictures from my 1st night in Seattle. Look for Part 2 very soon!

 

On the verge…

I really wanted my next blog to be about my travels, but when your emotions take over sometimes you just need to get how your feeling out in order to move on. Some backstory before the waves of emotion take over however:

I am a member of the IT Engagement team at my day job. I was tasked with decorating two bulletin boards which I paid out of pocket to do. I was not reimbursed. I spent 2.5 hours decorating two large boards- time I cannot get back. Both in Chalkboard pattern and cohesive. I was VERY proud of these boards. I’m not overly creative and this was an achievement for me.

I came back from vacation yesterday and one of the boards is the same and one is different. I have no idea where my decorations that I paid for went. I was not sent any sort of notification that my hard work was being torn down- less than 2 weeks after going up.

I don’t want to be upset at work. I know this is a total 1st world problem. My heart hurts though. It feels like no one cared about the time, the effort, or the cost associated. The board- is identical in style to my set up – with different letters and borders. It’s not like my “idea” isn’t represented. The sheer fact is someone had a different taste and changed something- without group approval. The Engagement team seems a little dictatorish anyways here factually.

There is a psychological backlash when someone feels like they weren’t good enough or something they did wasn’t good enough. They do not want to participate anymore. The hurt starts as anger. “I want what I paid for back”- in my case. Reality sets in- I’m working on every single thing we’re doing in September. Once anger subsided- stop involvement thoughts took over. “Who can I give this task to now, since they obviously do not want me involved- I’m not good enough”. Looking for validation that you are good enough begins. This is when I found out no one else noticed the change in the board- because no one uses the board. When no validation is found, what happens? For me- it was the brink of tears. You see it’s been a LONG time since I’ve felt this way.

I’ve been lucky in my time at this job. I’ve not had many fails with Scentsy that have made me personally feel like this. I’m being reminded of what some people go through daily. I honestly cannot imagine how they handle this much hurt in that capacity. In my case- I do not even know who caused the hurt. Many others have to see their source of pain in every day life.

In the grand scheme of things this is a MICROSCOPIC issue for me. In 5 minutes I will go into a meeting and receive praise on something I did for a project and this will melt into the backdrop of my workweek. It doesn’t make it less valid. This is a lesson learned. Today I didn’t cry. Today I decided that I was good enough at something else to let this incident go.

Trying Products- Loreal Edition

Hey Hi How Are you? It’s Kelly, and I’m back at it again with the product trials. This one is brought to you by Influenster. I received a box chalked full of goodies the other day! It contained the following items:

  • Voluminous Primer/Base- White (The main item to test)
  • Voluminous Original Mascara in Blackest Black
  • Eyeshadow Singles in 200 & 207
  • Infalible Eyeliner in Noir I believe
  • Eyebrow kit in Light to Medium (For the record- my eyebrows are BLACK)

Here’s a peek:

Box

So since I got these for free from Influenster and Loreal Makeup – I want to make sure you all understand- my opinions do not sway. They will still be 100% my own. I was not paid for an endorsement- simply given items to try that some get free with coupons.

When I travel, I do not like to test fate with new products. I waited until I was home from Nashville, TN to break these open.

Eyeshadow first! You’ll notice these are from snapchat. Follow me @kellyndodds there ❤

I swept 200- Paris Beach from lid to brow as a “primer” color. I dipped into my stash and pulled out my Too Faced Chocolate Bon Bon Palette to get some blending colors.

In the middle of my eye I used 207- Pain Au Chocolat for some shimmer. It was not very pigmented and I had to use a decent amount to even get the shimmer to show.

eyeshadow

So after the eyes I moved to the primer. I was timid at first. This looks like whiteout. It’s thick- like whiteout. You aren’t supposed to put whiteout on your eyes. I braced myself while my black as night lashes turned stark white.

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I did two coats of primer, since my eyelashes are so dark. I probably didn’t need two coats…. or so I would find out later. Regardless- It’s MASCARA TIME!

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If the brow kit would have been Ebony I would have thought this company knew me. They sent the mascara in Blackest Black- like my soul. Just Kidding- maybe. I probably didn’t need 2 coats of mascara either….

Warning- My brows need maintenance and I am aware, but here was the finished product and the most recent photo of myself, in the 8 am sunlight that only New Albany can provide. My lashes look a little clumpy but they do look thick and long which is what they promise with the primer. My work look is very neutral always and these colors suit that. As I went through the day my eyes became irritated because small clumps moved off my lashes. I did make an attempt to remove the mascara with simply water and found that even though this is not waterproof- the primer does grab hold of the mascara with vengeance. It was very very hard to remove. I’m sure had I done a 1:1 coat instead of 2:2 ratio it would not have ended that way for me! Stay tuned for my next product review box ❤

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The epic day before a roadtrip

If you aren’t doing the following things- you didn’t do it right.

Step 1) Freak out because you procrastinated. (Check)

Step 2) Over plan your day times infinity because you have so much to do before you leave. (Check)

Step 3) Remember things you need to do that you should have thought of waaaaaaaay earlier. (Check)

Step 4) Add said things to already over planned day. (Check)

Step 5) Sleep through half of them, realize they weren’t as dire as assumed, turn on Eye of the Tiger, and finish packing.

My sister and I visited this guy below at a rescue for large cats in Indiana. This is a picture I took. All rights are owned by me. ❤ I have a trip to pack for now! See you in Nashville, TN!

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Nashville or Bust!

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The last time my family visited Nashville was under some pretty terrible circumstances. Thanks to Scentsy, This Independent Director gets to go back for VERY little money! I cannot WAIT to see all the new Fall/Winter and seasonal items in person, visit with my friends that are currently all over the world, and stay at the Gaylord Opryland Resort.We’re being treated to a night at Wild Horse Saloon, an actual Grand Ole Opry show, and a Parachute private concert while there! The atmosphere at a Scentsy Convention is unlike any other- 100% moving and motivating. I’ve already started packing my bags!

The highlight of my last trip was the fancy drinks at The Aquarium Restaurant. This guy owes me a better photo for sure- don’t you think 😉 It is Shark week!!! Here’s to fun, family, and new goals! ❤

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  • All pictures taken by me ❤ Please do not use sans my permission.

I EARNED SOMETHING!!

Earned Spread Your Wings

This lovely little warmer is mine all mine! How? I presented at the Oklahoma City, OK World Tour event for Scentsy! I got to meet amazing people, see friends I do not get to see often, and chill with 3 of the sweetest people. It was an honor to be asked by Amanda Johnson to help out. Even though I was working it felt like a mini vacation. They also waived my registration for speaking! What an amazing company. We can also earn other incentives twice a year. They just give us things for doing our jobs. This is why I choose Scentsy! If you ever have any questions about our company please let me know. If you want to see our products simply go to www.knd.scentsy.us . You can earn it free, or share it with others yourself with me and my Glo-Getters ❤

Thank you Scentsy for everything you do for your consultants!

Obsessive?

I’m noticing a pattern in my behavior lately that could suggest that I have a mild Obsessive disorder. I will provide a background, lay the foundation so to speak.

I drive a 2010 Kia Forte. My Kia has bluetooth capabilities, however my iPhone will not play music from it for some crazed reason. Apparently it’s only good for phone calls. This means I have a dreaded AUX cable. I’ve now gone through 3 AUX cables ranging from 5$-20$ all with the same issue, which means the issue is either my car port or my phone port. Unless I pull the cable partially out of my iPhone, the sound is very muddy, song faint, and not to mention incredibly annoying. These cables work with my phone in other vehicles, so I’m sure that means it’s the car port. This lead me to digress into the world of CD’s.

In December I purchased my first CD since high school- from Common Culture . It’s a compilation album made up of artists from all over the world. I did not know a single artist on the album and I took a leap. It’s the greatest driving CD. It’s diverse and different. I still can listen to it without getting bored. For a month straight it was all I listened too while driving. In February I purchased another CD (I felt strange only having 1). Again- listened to nothing but this CD for a month. Difference here- I knew the tracks because I had already purchased them all on my iPhone. Last week I purchased the Halsey Badlands CD. Same pattern. Do you do this? Am I normal? I now have almost all of the songs on these 3 CD’s memorized. Each CD has 1 song I skip because I just do not care for it/relate to it.

What wacky thing are you obsessed with? Tell me in the comments below!

Anxiety Aches and Pains

I’d like to state for the record that one should never by any means Google symptoms they are experiencing unless they expect WebMD to say they have “Cancer” or they are “Dying”.

I am not your typical human. However I have something that millions of Americans also have- some unknowing. I’ve always been ultra sensitive to how things involving my life work. It is no secret that change is harder for me than most people if it involves something in my life, or my job(s). I always adapt, but it could be a facade until I have to partake personally in the change. That’s when it happens. Muscles tense up. My heart beats faster. I get clam hands. Panic rushes through me. Sometimes, I quit breathing and the familiar feeling of an asthma attack comes on. But it isn’t an asthma attack- It’s a Panic attack. Puffing on my inhaler will resolve this issue. The one thing you want to do is a seemingly impossible task to complete. Just.Sit.Still. My mind is racing. I cannot breathe. How do you expect me to sit still? This, is my Anxiety Disorder rearing it’s ugly head.

What is strange about my form of anxiety? Why is it different from others? It typically isn’t my thoughts causing my attacks. You see I get overwhelmed in situations such as events with large groups of people, issues requiring big decisions, people fighting, large amounts of tasks on my plate, or when things are changed without logic (this one is my own problem). I need well set, timed out plans for what is getting done in order to manage my life. I prefer to also have a back up plan if something goes wrong. If both fail- I will have an attack. I will often not delegate tasks causing a pile up on myself and that will trigger an attack if someone starts asking where something is, when something is, or if something is done yet. I have to prioritize somewhere visible- because if I do not I feel like I am being swallowed whole.

You may be asking why I’m bothering typing this out to the world. Someone may stumble across this post and relate. All I ever want to do is help someone else know they aren’t alone. I manage my anxiety without medication. If I get overwhelmed I excuse myself from the situation and I find a quiet space where I can be alone and I say the following sentence until I calm down: ” My name is _____, I live at ________. I am __ years old. My mother is ______ and my father is _____.”

There is another technique I often use if I cannot escape others:

  1. I look all around me.
  2. I find 5 things I can see.
  3. I find 4 things I can touch.
  4. I find 3 things I can hear.
  5. I find 2 things I can smell.
  6. I find 1 thing I can taste.

It is called grounding. It refocuses you on things so you can calm yourself and feel back in control. If I am at home when it happens I get into a bath with headphones and an audio book or music. I find music soothes me more than most options but again, you cannot pull out your phone at work and just turn on some crooners.

If you notice your attacks becoming frequent you may need to see a doctor for more in depth treatment. Whatever you do- please know that you always have someone to talk to if you feel like you cannot handle your anxiety. Use this blog to contact me or reach out to the National Institute of Mental Health’s anxiety hotline:  1-888-826-9438.

For further contact you can find me on Twitter @kellyndodds